Life is what you see and how you see it. If you see good, life is good, said Frank. If you see all difficulties as opportunities, not as an unjust destiny, then life is a game, an interesting and challenging game, the best game ever invented. The variety, the number of participants, the external events, the opportunities that you have cannot be created artificially in a similar variety and number. Each interaction with another human is challenging, a game in which you talk and read the other people’s minds, you follow their eyes inside their brain and read their minds while listening to their words. At the same time you talk and what you hear and read changes your choice of words.
Your attitude determines your success. You believe in your dream, slowly others will believe it too. You do not believe in your dream, nobody will do in your place. If you expect others to persuade you in your abilities, you will die deluded.